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Emailing Men on HotRussianBrides.com: What Not to Do

30. October 2009 by Christy 0 Comments

While every lady is free to do as she likes, there are some email techniques you may wish to avoid if you want a man to think you are serious in your quest for love. Below are some things you should try not to do when corresponding with a man, as well as a few suggestions to help you get better results on HotRussianBrides.com. 


Don’t Send Countless Form Letters

When you use HotRussianBrides.com do you send the same message to many different men? If so, this message is known as a “form letter” or “blanket letter.” Gentlemen can generally spot form letters very easily, and some worry that ladies who send blanket letters are not serious about finding a partner.


If possible, try to personalize each message. For example, use a gentleman’s name (rather than generic terms of endearment like “honey,” “dear,” “sweetie,” or “my love”). This will let a man know you wrote the letter just for him. You should also try to refer to something interesting in his profile or ask him questions about his life. This will let a gentleman know you have read his profile and/or messages and are interested in him as a person. 


Don’t Send Letters to Huge Numbers of Men

While we understand that you may not have much computer time, sending emails to too many gentlemen can have negative results. Why? Soon after joining HotRussianBrides, many gentlemen receive a hundred emails or more (many of them form letters). They often receive these letters even before they post a picture or personal information. Unfortunately, this causes many gentlemen to worry that the ladies on HotRussianBrides are not serious and are perhaps even being paid to chat with as many men as they can.

If possible, find a few men you think are very appealing and email them first. If you don’t get enough responses, email a few more men and then expand your communication from there. This will make it easier for you to manage your email and may improve your chances of the right guy quickly.

While every lady is free to email as many men as she wants, however she wants, cutting down on form letters and bulk emails may help you find the man of your dreams more quickly. The gentlemen members are likely to appreciate your efforts and will feel better knowing that you are seriously searching for love on HotRussianBrides.com.